Virtual Sympathy cards
There are so many different ways we can show sympathy to those in need. Below is a list of ideas and their meanings:
1. A caring listener: Someone who is there for the person, listening attentively and trying to understand what the other person may be going through. Asking questions, and telling them about your own experiences to help put their mind at ease. This kind of support encourages hope, even when things look impossible.
2. A hug: A simple sign of support and comfort, a hug communicates empathy without having to speak a word while also providing some much-needed physical contact with another human being that might be most receptive at this moment in time.
3. A box of chocolates: Sometimes the best gifts are the most simple ones. Something that seems so trite to many people can make a world of difference to someone who has just lost someone they love.
4. A Condolences cards: It's true that sometimes when you're having a bad day seeing something positive and beautiful can help change your mood and make you feel better. It also doesn't have to be anything fancy, just something well made or nicely designed will do the trick too just like a sympathy ecard!
5. Flowers: They're beautiful and probably one of the most common ways to show sympathy also you can send them with free sympathy card. A simple bouquet or bunch of blooms sent is a wonderful way to acknowledge someone's loss. They express your sympathy with a gesture that doesn't take much time or effort but is sure to make an impact.
6. A letter: It's easy to say "I'm sorry" but sometimes these words alone don't always seem like enough. A handwritten letter is both a creative and a personal way to show support and understanding regardless of how busy your schedule might be at the moment. It can help someone understand how you are feeling and help them feel accepted in their grief by you showing care in your words and actions.
7. A free sympathy card: As simple as this is, cards are a fantastic way to show someone you're thinking about them. Sent from anywhere in the world, they're a quick, easy way to let someone know that you're thinking of them, even if you don't have time to send them the flowers or flowers aren't available for whatever reason.
8. A gift: This is something I've always kept hidden away in my heart but recently I've been finding myself wanting to give more and more gifts around the time of Christmas. Whether it's books that make reading more exciting or gifts that help benefit children and adults alike it's something so easy but so meaningful!
9. A meal: This one is great if you have the time and the means to do so. It's easy to pick up something quick on the go but if you can take a little longer in preparing a nice home-cooked meal for someone it really can help brighten up their day and be an unforgettable gesture of support.
10. A magazine: Magazines are fantastic for just killing time when you're bored, but during a difficult time like this they offer a lot more opportunities to strike up a conversation. If you notice someone being down, give them a magazine and spark up a conversation about that particular topic or publication. It may very well help ease their pain and make them feel better about themselves going forward, at least for a little while.
11. A letter was written from a child: This one might seem strange but it's very powerful and meaningful. Take time to write a letter from a child in their situation. Maybe tell them that you know how they feel and how you were there once too but things got better. Maybe the only thing they need is someone to talk to and someone to be there for them, just like you were when you were younger. The fact that your voice was heard when you were younger is enough to help another soul get through the day, week, month, or year if they are having a hard time.
12. Don't give up on them!
13. Make plans to see them again: If you've lost someone close it can be a very isolating experience, and because of that sometimes we put ourselves into a negative place as a way to make ourselves feel better by avoiding certain situations and people. If you see someone in that same position it's okay not to want to be with them, at least not right away. Just finish getting your own life back in order first before planning a trip or even just calling them.
14. Help their family out: Sometimes the best thing well-meaning people can do for someone is simply to help out their family and friends who are struggling in their grief. Whether it's going to the grocery store and picking up a few things or dropping by with a hot meal you can help make life easier for them, help them feel loved and appreciated, and be there to support them through the difficult times.
15. Keep in touch: If you've lost someone close keep in touch with their family and friends. Even if it's just getting a postcard on your birthday saying "Sorry I missed you", just keeping in touch will help keep their memory alive.
These are just a few ideas that might be able to show you how widely different people can think of ways they can show affection, support, and consideration towards those who have lost a loved one. After all, there is no right or wrong way to show someone you care, just as long as your actions come from the heart. If you do feel like it will be hard to act right away on any of these ideas don't feel discouraged! You don't have to do everything today, tomorrow, or even on the day of the passing. Just try one thing at a time and eventually you'll find it easier to rise above your grief and enjoy life again!
