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What is an Orgy?
What is an Orgy?
Before and during sex, communicate your limits and wants to your sex partners. The encounter will be more pleasurable if you are more open.

What is an Orgy?

 

You know what they say… the more, the merrier! Eh? An orgy is a sex gathering during which numerous people engage in consenting, unrestricted sexual activity. (While the phrases “orgy” and “swingers party” are occasionally used interchangeably, a swingers party is specifically for couples). Although there is no set minimum for an orgy, the general consensus is that it should involve at least five individuals since group sex between three and four people is known as a threesome and a foursome, respectively. Any sort of sexual activity is permissible at an orgy as long as all partners consent. Orgy members may participate in oral sex, intercourse, anal play, bondage, role-playing, and other activities.

If you read our book – “The Erotic Journey of The Seven Graduates,” Even and Hiram, the two of our seven graduates, attend an orgy party on a cruise! Where hundreds of guests get naked and get involved in sex, aka – orgy.

How did Orgy come up? What is its history?

In modern times, an orgy refers to a sexual encounter, while its historical connotation suggests a deeper spiritual occasion. The term “orgy” comes from the Greek orgion, which means “licentious revelry.” The Greek orgia alludes to passionate worship, such as Dionysus’ and Bacchus’ secret rites—the ancient Greek and Roman gods of wine, fertility, and religious ecstasy. At bacchanal celebrations, these revels encouraged excessive drinking, merrymaking, and sex practices. Attendees at the bacchanal thought that Bacchus personified wine and that consuming it would bring them closer to the gods. To prevent their inclinations from erupting in more sinister ways later, part of this heavenly connection required gratifying their sexual needs.

The Roman senate was suspicious of these secret ceremonies, and in 186 B.C., it enacted the Senatus consultum de Bacchanalibus (Senatorial Decree Concerning the Bacchanalia) to curb overindulgence during orgiastic celebrations. 

Keep in Mind

Before participating in any of these activities, make sure you do a thorough background check of the people involved in them. You cannot just join any group without a background check. At times the people involved consume a ton of substances that tend to cause difficulties to themselves and to others.

Do not rush into an orgy just because you’re lonely and you don’t have anyone to be with, or you’ve been lacking sexual activities for some time now. Make sure you’re relaxed and calm, and then make calculate decisions.

Don’t take rejection personally, and while rejecting someone else’s approaches, be courteous. You’ll have lots of additional opportunities to do sex activities with other people. 

Approach the event with a more open mind than you would in a typical dating situation. This sex-positive environment is a wonderful chance to examine sexual partners who you may not find appealing in the past, such as persons of various body shapes, genders, or even personalities. You could find a new sex turn-on that you can use in your everyday sex life.

Before and during sex, communicate your limits and wants to your sex partners. The encounter will be more pleasurable if you are more open.